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writes:omg please someone im crying right nowok heres the short story...im 12 yrs old nd i have a tutor and me and him are rlly close i tell him all my problems nd he helps me out all the time nd hes so kind and is always there for me. then i found out hes leving! he left yesterday (friday) nd i neerly died! after school i went to see him to have our final chat goodbye..he told me that now hes no longer my teacher thets tlk openly and clear the air...so i told him tht i see him as the dad i never had because hes always bin there for me. then he tells me tht he sees me as a doughter! i neerly died!...THEN carrying on abit...at the end of the chat we hugged! TO SAY GOODBYE nd wen i was in his arms i felt all sacure nd warm inside... we hugged for about 5 mins..i new he was upsset the same as me...then we had to go so tht was it we sed bye nd now im never gna see him again!! it upsets me becuase now iv hugged him i feel closer to him nd ino tht im never gna c him again!!! i miss him loads nd thts wots making me cry!!!! HELP PLEASE I NEED ADVICE ON HOW TO FORGET ABOUT IT ETC! please i beg u !!!!!!xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): Is there no way you could get into contact with him? Maybe ask at school if they have a contact number for him (say you wanted to ask him about some work you did in his class or something so it doesn't look dodgy) or look in a phone book and you could get his email address. That way you two can stay in touch and you will still have him as a friend. Thats what I'm going to do with my personal tutor when I leave college, shes the best teacher I've ever had! I know how you feel, my brother was really upset when his favourite teacher left last year. See if you can get some kind of phone number for him and get his email address!
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reader, I care  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 listen sweety I know it's very hard to go through things like this but you never know what God has planed for your future maybe you will be able to see this person again.You have to look at the positive side of things people will come and go out of your life and yes it will hurt but you can keep them close by remembering the good times that you shared and by using there advice in your future to make the right decisions and by doing this you still feel the closeness to them that your missing right now. everthing will work out in the end just open your heart to the Lord and he will heal your sorrow. If you ever need to talk please contact me I'll do my best to help or just help give you someone to talk to. All the best and I'll pray for you. Please remember your not alone you can write us any time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): I know that you will miss him dreadfully - but as time goes on that pain will heal slowly.
You will find other people who you can talk and feel secure with - not to replace him of course - but who can be a role-model or friend like him.
Don't try to forget about him - but accept that you had a good time while he was here and you're glad about it. Keep doing stuff that you enjoy and keep having fun in your life.
You can miss him but you must learn to move on and live to enjoy life with or without him. Good luck. It'll stop hurting eventually. x x x
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