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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi my bf and i have been together for 4 years. . i know he has been taking steroids since i've known him and i recently found out that he has done drugs from time to time. within the past 6 months we have broken up a few times because every time we seem to get into a little argument he tells me he doesnt want to be in this relationship anymore. in the past week this has happened again where i try not to argue but to talk it out and he goes from joking around while i'm talking to him to completely losing his mind telling me he doesnt no what he wants, telling me that if i leave he will never talk to me again, asking me why im doing this, he tells me to leave and then he tells me to stay. of course i left but i havent heard from him in a few days now im not exactly sure what to make of it . im not even sure as to where our relationship stands anymore. my close friends think he may have a drug problem or possible that the steroids have taken a toll on him. any advice would be great thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2007): You poor, poor thing. I understand why you say that you don't know where you stand, but the fact that he hasn't contacted you since you left may be your answer. You have been very brave to take the step to walk away and should try to avoid going back on this by contacting him. If he truly wants to be with you it should be him who makes the first move. However I would strongly advise you to use this time to think about what you want and expect from a relationship so as to avoid a repeat performance should he try to get in touch.
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