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writes:I do a lot of community theatre but my current show has thrown me for a loop. The thing is, my "stage husband" has a crush on me. He's a great guy and we have a lot in common...problem? He's 19 I'm 26...what do I do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): Age is just a number. If you like him and both of you are free and single then go for it. Life is not a rehearsal! Enjoy!
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): Age is just a number. If you like him and both of you are free and single then go for it. Life is not a rehearsal! Enjoy!
Take care
xx
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reader, Sadi +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Hi there...
Sounds like a problem to me... But hears what i tell others... Life is full of suprises.. Sometimes life is hard, Sometimes life is easy... But in life, not everyone finds love.. Poeple crave it... Personally, I think that age is just a number... If he makes you laugh, and happy, ( and you are older then 18) then go for it,,,
If it was a matter of a minor, and an adult, then there would be an issue... But if you like this guy, and visversa, Then step up,,, I think love is always worth a chance...
Good Luck.. :)
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Why is this a problem?
Do you or he have a problem with the age difference?
I spoke to a 23 year old lady once who had several children of various ages around her.
During the course of the conversation she told me they were all her grandchildren. ??????????????
She laughed and said they were actually her step grandchildren.
Her husband's former wife died, and they eventually found themselves just too good together not to marry. They had no kind of sexual relationship before marriage but at the time I spoke with her they had been married for two years and were just as in love at that time as when they first married.
I have also spoken with other couples who have had age differences of at least 12 years with her being the oldest.
All whom I am thinking of with the exception of one couple are having wonderful marriages. Explore the possibility. Doc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): Exact same age gap as me. I'm 18 and boyfriend is 25.
If you like him, don't let the age scare you. I know a woman who was 32 when she began dating an 18 year old....three years later they're engaged. It all depends on the situation.
If you don't like him, politely say you only see him as a friend.
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