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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi iv been seeing a guy 4 about 3 month now however i had 2 go away on buisness for a month over christmas. we stil kept in contact and was eager 2 meet up when i got back. We did only once however we still emailed and texted each other. Im currently on business again and he has jus mentioned meeting up again. The thing is his friend is interested in my friend and the only way he might see her is through me so i feel like the guy is just using me. We have messed around in the bedroom but have not slept togther as i am a virgin and he knows this. Im really confused whether he likes me or if hes just using me??
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (14 February 2007):
I guess only time will tell whether or not he's using you. You haven't seen him many times so you can't really know the answer to that yet. If you really like him, give it time and don't sleep with him until you're sure he's not using you. If you sleep with him too soon then be bolts, you will have been used but you can't do anything about it. Give it time, you'll soon know whether or not he really likes you or just wants some fun in the bedroom.
Good luck and hang in there, if he passes the test, they're always worth it in the end.
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