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writes: I am worried about my son.He is 16 and wants an elderly girlfriend... what do I do?A Worried Mom Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): lett him go for it i am 22 and my girlfriend is 37 it is the best thing i have ever done. i love her with all my heart great great great sex it is the best sex . the best thing is that she can teach you everthing and the best way to fuck her sweet pussy
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2005): He insists to me he still wants to have an elderly girlfriend, and says this is genuine.What do I do?A Worried Mom
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (3 December 2005):
 Try not to worry. I think he's probably just "yanking your chain". A boy at that age wants to do the exact opposite of what he's "supposed" to do; remember, part of growing up is rejecting everything your parents tell you.
He's very, very unlikely to find a woman of that age to date him, you know, and even if he did, he'd probably feel naturally creepy about any physical contact. The "relationshi" would be over almost before it started.
Try to treat this like what it is... a tedious phase that he'll likely grow out of. When it stops having shock value, and when you stop reacting to his comments about it, he'll probably stop mentioning it. (Of course, being a teen, he'll move on to some other annoying phase!)
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): A senior citizen is his definition of elderly, and I'm getting more worried about him.A Worried Mom
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): What is elderly? Do you mean a senior citizen or a senior in high school or college even? It is good to worry about your son. It seems as if he is at least talking to you and trusting you for you to know this - this is the best sign. Keeping talking to him and supporting him, and keep worrying - within reason - but remember to let him live. Wanting to date at 16 is normal, wanting to date an 18 yr old, fine, 26 - a little worried, 36 - I would start to worry a lot. He is still your child and your son. Be there for him and be a parent not just a friend - discipline mixed with selfless love is key.
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