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writes: When my son was 2 years old I decided to file for child support since he had a deadbeat dad that would not come around. After I did this, he took me to court to get revenge and get visitation rights. I think a lot of it had to do with his wicked mother talking him into it. Anyway I don't have a problem with his daddy seeing him, (well I do, but I am doing it for my son's sake), but I do have a problem with the grandma seeing him. She is an undescribable person. She is evil but so dense it's annoying. I don't usually say I hate people but I truly hate and despise her. You would have to know her to realize why I don't want my son around her. She bribes her kids, pretends like my son is hers so she can look young and get dates, uses men to take her on cruises, and she lies on the online dating sites to get what she wants. She put a pic of my son and her on the dating site! What if she meets some strange guy and my child disappears one day? Anyway I let his dad get him this weekend and told him to promise me he would not let his mom see my son. But of course my 4 year old comes home and tells me he has been at her house. I was highly teed off! Should I stop letting him get my child or what? I have already tried talking to him about it, but he just lies.
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reader, Happygoddess +, writes (20 September 2005):
When I split with my ex I had to take mandatory divorce classes because of our children. One of the things I learned is that when your ex takes the children on visitation, as long as they aren't doing anything against the law then you really need to be o.k. with it. He is entitled to spend time with his kid(s) however he sees fit as long as they are being taken care of. Don't fight over this, and don't put your son in the middle. Instead, focus on ways to make your son feel comfortable in either setting. Regardless, you will be a better person for it and your son will too. Good luck!
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