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My soft erections???

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Question - (18 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

When me and my girl are kissing I get turned on really easily but for some reason the erection I get it soft and when she does stuff to it I ejaculate near enough as soon as she touches it.

I don't know why my erection is soft and whether this has anything to do with why I ejaculate so fast. I do get hard erections but for some reason when I'm with my girlfriend I don't seem to get them.

What's going wrong??? :S

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (19 March 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou maybe having stress or worries about your performance. Quit your worrying and relax .

Stop all your masturbating s and let the sexual tensions build up for her.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2010):

Miamine agony auntDo you look at pornography a lot? Do you masturbate a lot? Do you have a lot of sex? Stop all sex contact for a while. Just do kissing, touching, and no ejaculation. You can however give her as much pleasure as she can stand. :)

If you are masturbating too much, maybe Johnny Penis is not hungry enough. So stop the sex thing for a while and he'll get hungry, hard and he'll stand up.

Also men have a stronger grip than women. You may have got used to your own hand and find that sex with her is too gentle for your liking. Thus, cut down on porn and masturbation until you get used to a woman's more gentle touch.

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