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writes:iam 17 years old and i will be 18 in nov. I met this girl that is 13 years old and we were going out until my social worker found out and told me if i didnt quit seeing her that they would move me to a different home long ways away and register me as a sex offender. i didnt do anything sexual and i dont want to because i want to wait. my social worker doesnt believe me. i really like this girl and i think im in love with her. but i dont know what to do because i want to see her and they wont let me. what should i do? i need to know if its illegal to be going out with a 13 year old when im 17 almost 18 and we are not doing anything sexual. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2007): agreed. you're putting yourself at risk for nothing. you can always meet her again in 4 or 5 years. don't risk being labelled as something you aren't because it will never go away
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reader, love-him  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 Hey babe, they are looking out for this girl, my advise is that you listen to your social worker and dont get interested in this girl. The chances are if they take you to court for being with a 13 year old, they will think its wrong.. Mail me if you want to talk x x
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reader, LauraE +, writes (10 July 2007):
I agree with eyeswideopen. Much, much too big a risk. No one will believe you about not being interested sexually. If you are once branded a paedophile, it will affect you very badly for the rest of your life. You will not be allowed to see her again, so why let it get that far? You can get over her if you stop seeing her altogether. It hurts, but it's necessary.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (10 July 2007):
 You need to face the truth. People do not believe that a 17 year old guy is just seeing a 13 year old just for companionship. You are looking for a world of hurt if you continue to see the child. Look her up in 5 years. You do not want to live the rest of your life branded as a pedophile. Whether you think you have done no wrong is not an issue, it just is not worth the risk.
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