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writes:Dear Cupid, So my sister is kinda of dating this guy, who I happen to really like, she is leaving May 25 to travel to the phillipines and told me I should date him when she leaves. She also told me that she has no attractions to him whatsoever, she just thinks of him as a good friend. She has even told him that he should date me. My mother told me she loves the idea of us getting together. I do like him, but I feel like this is just plain weird. He's told me that if he met me before her he would rather date me. Is it only me that thinks this is just wrong? I mean he is dating my sister! He told me he likes me before taking her on a date, and she heard and was happy! Please help, What should I do about this whole situation? Reply to this Question
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reader, fishdish +, writes (19 March 2011):
 I don't really see what's so wrong with it. Both your sister and her boyfriend admit, privately to you, that they are not meant to be together. There's some attraction that your whole family can see and that this boyfriend recognizes. You don't have to take your sister's place overnight. Give it some time to figure out if you are genuinely attracted to him enough to want to pursue something with him, and so he doesn't feel like 'hers' anymore, if you can get to that point. Hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): na na na
this is not at all good idea. dating with someone you liked is ok if you are sure you gonna marry him someday. But, it does not mean that you date with someone who already involve with one of your sister. on the other hand I cant understand why your mother allowing you to date with the same guy your sister get along. you dont need to follow such 'kind' words to make someone happy for the sake of someone taking the advantgae that you knew him in the past. I appriciate the guy who understands this. Just think for a moment that you are exploiting yourself for nothing but because of your sister? your mind is telling you the right thing, stay out of it and date with someone you sure about to be your future husband.
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