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writes: My boyfriend came over over to my place. We went in my room (my parents weren't home at the time) and one thing lead to another we were making out like crazy. Until my sister (she's 9) came in without knocking. Let's just say she saw some stuff that I wish she didn't (it wasn't sex). Now it's pretty awkward. any Ideas Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): "at your age" "you are way too young to be doing things like this" I'm sorry, did i miss something, since when is 13 years old too young to kiss someone.
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (29 January 2009):
 At the age you are you really shouldn't be home "alone" with your b/f as both of your hormones are flying about all over the place and one thing can lead to another rapidly and before you know it theres more going on than making out and not only are you perhaps too young to be considering anything more than making out - we all know that at your age it seems all new and exciting and you can easilly get carried away. As for your 9 year old sister seeing anything she may well not have wanted to see, let alone you wanting her to see, perhaps talking to her might put your mind as ease, and hers. At 9 years old a child has an understanding of what is happening around it and your sister may well feel very embarrassed herself about what she saw. There is nothing that you can do to take it back now but make sure she is ok and try not to let the situation get out of hand again and put it down to one of those experiences.When you're older your sister will no doubt use that moment as fodder against you for the rest of your life in the same kind of way as parents like showing your boyfriends your baby pictures, your sister will probably get a great deal of joy in telling the story about "that time when i walked in on you....".If she should mention it, make sure your sister is not upset about anything she saw, she doesn't need to think that its ok behaviour at such a young age.If she tells your parents, don't be too harsh on her, younger children do have a tendency to say what they see or mean as they say or see it. Perhaps you have learnt a valuable lesson in the process. As a little afterthought though, i know what its like to be a teenager, i was one once, and i know you'll be wanting to do all manner of things with your b/f when and if you're ready, but please remember there are age restrictions on sex for a reason and you should be respectful to those laws and to your parents - if and when you do have sex with anyone, remember to be safe. I had a child when i was 16 years old and although i don't regret having him, i was far too young at the time and wish i had waited a few years. Remember, if he loves you, he'll wait. Good luck in the future, chalk this one down to experience and think a little more next time :)
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reader, im_a_dummy +, writes (29 January 2009):
 well, what exactly did she see? just you guys making out? were all your clothes on??
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