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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I fantasize having sex with women who i get attracted to in day to day life, may it be one from work or in nearby social group. Once i have done that over and over, i get a feeling of having conquered them and my attraction towards them starts to fade to the extent that i don't regard them worth any value to me. I also try to push this intense feeling i have of having conquered them on bed when i see them again. And somehow, they seem to respond accordingly (as if they were really conquered) which further strengthens my illusionary belief. Then i keep moving to find other women. The bad part of this is, even if someone geniunely likes me, i end up in to this battle and can't really get to know them before moving own. I think i have lost quite a few girls who could have been good friends to me, because of this attitude. I know a few women still like me and i don't want to end up doing the same. Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, nologo  +, writes (16 March 2007):
 Fantasy is a fantasy and real life is a real life.You wrote you "have lost quite a few girls who could have been good friends".What is your definition of Friendship?Are you looking for female friends or for something different?Find your own answers to these two questions before moving any further.
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