My relationship isn't making me happy anymore!

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Dear Cupid: I am not happy. My relationship of 3 and 1/2 year is not making me happy, but I don't know if it me or him; or is it a stage that couples go through or are we just simply not meant to be. We are currently in a long distance relationship, and I feel like I've done so much to keep our relationship together that I am exhausted. I also feel that I am not being appreciated for the things that I've done for him. I feel like if I went to Iraq (war) and now I am back and I don't even know what was I suppose to be fighting for or if it was worth the time and the effort. I think i have reached my limits of trying.. I am at a point where I don't care anymore, and i think that is not good.. The problem was that at the beginning of our relationship he was still seeing his ex. and little by little he got over her (I think), but he stills talk to her. And to add more things to my problem , he does not commit to me like I would like to... He wants me to move in with him but, we are not even engage...I am tired of waiting.. I've waited 3 and 1/2 years.. how much longer? Am I overreacting? I love him deeply, but I don't know what to do?

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