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writes: what does someone do when there in an abusive relationship,have been unfaithfull,but cant live with the guilt.and cant be honest with there partner but cant leave the abusive relationship cuz there so screwed up? Reply to this Question
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reader, eddie  +, writes (3 June 2006):
 If the relationship is truly abusive, you must leave. If you cheated but don't love your husband it's still wrong. It might make it easier to get over though once you're apart. What type of abuse are we talking about? That word is thrown around quite easily these days..
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006): you are both co-dependent on each other. It is a very bad relationship to be in,from my experience you wont leave him until you find somebody else to love.If you want a way out, You could tell him ,lets just put the relationship on hold and work on each other while being just friends .This way you are still friends and talk but you stop the bedroom and all intimates(this works best if he is the type that can't get the hint that you want to leave the relationship.)It wont be easy to break this abusive relationship but if you continue like you are going nothing is going to change.
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reader, Ifonlyangel +, writes (3 June 2006):
Ask yourself this "are you happy?" if the answer is NO then leave this person and find someone that makes you happy and will repect you and treat you with the kindness you deserve, Abusive relationships are ones to steer well clear of and never ever go back to them, this person cannot care for you very much if they want to abuse you and another thing you say you have cheated, WHY? was it cause you were unhappy? you have to make your own mind up in the long run and you will have to be honest and clear with the people involved. Dont feel as if you cant leave because your scared of what the other person will do, i know it sounds abit vain but think about number one and make sure you are going were you want to be going with the person you want and love. i hope this helps.
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