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41-50,
*oanneBirnie
writes: Hi i need some advice pleasemy boyfriend and i have been together for 8 monthswe get on quite well and i do love himim 27 hes 32...And my problem is i dont think hes attracted to me anymore..i know its only been 8 months but thats my point surely he cant be bored alreadyim 34 24 34 been called pretty..have done everything sexually he has wanted even when i felt uncomfortable but still agreed to do it...he just seems to have stopped touching me..ie when we are alone or just a friendly hug would be nice..i dont think at all that hes using me i just think there is some problem maybe its just me or maybe he has gone off me...if anyone can give me any tips or ways to tell if he is..asking would be a bit daft cos he would either sulk or deny it..if u can help please reply... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (4 October 2009):
Errm, the only thing you can do it ask him. That's it. If he gets sulky and refuses to talk about it, then you're in a troubled relationship before it's even started. Do you know anything about his past? Has he been hurt before? Or is there serious stress in his life at the moment? These are the quesitons that you need answers to because these are the most likely problems. But if you don't get answers, don't confine yourself to a cold relationship.
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