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writes: i am so confussed. what started out as a game and as part as my revenge on my husband has backfired. my husband was abusive during our first 12 years of marriage, then he changed and the abuse almost stopped completely. but one week after our 17th anniversary had a time thing, or so he says. he said he did not have sex because he couldnt. I swore to him that i would get him back no matter how long it would take because he refused get seperated from me. i admit, i hated this man to death! well as time passed i finished my degree at school and saw that this guy younger than me would flirt alot. i like him, he always kept me smiling. i told him my problem and that i wanted to get back at my husband for cheating. he said that i should not, but i told him that i would no matter what. So finally after three years of flirting with this guy i asked him if he wouldnt mind kissing me. he is 14 years than i am and i knew he had a girlfriend at the time, but got married when the kiss happened. well we have done a little more than kissing and i know that i am wrong, but i have feelings for him. my question is....should i go cold turkey and never talk to him again or should we act like what happened between us never happened. he live out of state and we see each other every xmas when he comes and visits with his family. and when we are alone, he comes on very strong and i try to resist but i find myself loving him. What should i do?
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (8 January 2006):
OK its time to start being a grown up now. Wht you did was childish and silly and you have now got yourself in very deep.
Go cold turkey, put some distance between you but maintain a friendly balance. You cant love someone unless you have been spending 24/7 as a couple over a period of months. When you meet up again, time and distance will weaken your "love" and you wont have the problems you think you will have.
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