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writes:My partner has disappeared for the 4 time now after promising my son he'll be around n that how can I tell my don that his left again n the only thing I got was that his sorry dose it mean that his left me for good or his he playing away Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 July 2017):
 Four times to many in my opinion. You need to stop this now or this will severely effect your son emotionally growing up in to a man. It doesn't matter if he has left you or is playing away you need to put your son first and protect him. Is he leaving you or you both?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (4 July 2017):
 If he has done this 4 times already, HOW many times do you think it will take before you accept that he is NOT going to keep his promise of always being around?
He might MEAN that he will be around when he says it, but that doesn't mean he will stick by it when things aren't working out for him.
Focus on you and your son.
Instead of KEEP taking him back when he shows up, SHOW him the door and MOVE on.
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reader, suzzzque269 +, writes (4 July 2017):
 if it were me i wouldnt EVER let this guy back into my life again! your son does not deserve to be treated this way
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (4 July 2017):
 Why are you letting him do this? Cut him off. If he's your son's father, get full custody and child support, if you haven't already. Get visitation set up and don't allow him in on days that aren't his.
If he isn't the father of your son, dump him and don't let him anywhere near your son again.
Stop allowing him to mess you and your child about. He doesn't love either of you.
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