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female
age
36-40,
*uphrasia
writes:Hey everyone....I just started dating this really awesome guy.he is great and he really loves me because no one has treated the way he treats me.I have come to love him too.I think he is the one.he just makes me feel so complete.We have known each other for than a year and we have been dating for two months now,and we recently started making out.my concern is with his weight.he is not obese, he is very huge.he is very tall and he is well built.I like this about him, I actually find it very attractive. I usually have a problem with him being on top of when we are making out.I don't think i can handle his weight on top,I find it had to breathe.we have made out like twice and on both occasions I woke up with body pains and I had muscle fatigue.we haven't had sex yet and am woundering how I will handle his weight then because am guessing it will be worse.maybe I will eventually get used to his weight.I really love this guy and I want to spend the rest of my life with him.and I love that his is huge.he is my teddy bear.I know this may seem shallow to some people but I am asking for advice and tips on how to handle his weight.thank you in advance.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (1 December 2014):
 lay side by side or you go on top when making out...
For Sex there are many sexual positions other than missionary (male superior) that can be used... female superior (you straddle him on his back either facing him or away from him (called cow girl or reverse cowgirl)
dove tail or scissors has you facing each other lying on your sides with your legs intertwined.
doggy or rear entry is you on your hands and knees with him on his knees behind you..
and of course there is always the fun of finding others that work for you.
My last husband was 450 6'4" to my 5'2" it worked just fine.
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