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*mandy1
writes:my partner is still texting his ex and tells her he still loves her and that we are not together. we have been together six months. he also hides his mobiles or puts them on silent or turns them off when im around. he spends every night with me and i see him every afternoon am i worrying over nothing as ive been cheated on before or is he acting suspicious to you too?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): HE is cheating or he will soon. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don't be played. Leave him. He will want you once you pull away... don't pay any mind to it... move on...
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reader, 1mandy1 +, writes (17 January 2007):
1mandy1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI found out that he was telling his ex all this because i found texts on his phone and took her number down. I phoned her 3mths into our relationship and she didn`t even know he had a new partner. I have spoken to her several times and she told me stuff that had happened recently in his life so i have no reason to doubt what she is saying. Admittedly she was the one who told me that he says this stuff. Yes she still wants him back but i have told her i wasn`t going to stop seeing him and so she got nasty. The trouble is i`m not sure what his game is he told me he loved me 2wks after we met and said he wanted to marry me this year. I feel that he says this stuff because thats what he thinks i want to hear, when really all i want is the truth. I do love him but still not sure if i can trust him. Thank you for replies they`re very helpful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): Why are you still with him if he is texting his ex and telling her he still loves her?????? You need to get to the bottom of this. Tell him you want a talk and get all of this sorted out. If he still keeps in touch and says these things then get rid. But how do you know if he hides his phone?
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007): Why are you still with him if he is texting his ex and telling her he still loves her?????? You need to get to the bottom of this. Tell him you want a talk and get all of this sorted out. If he still keeps in touch and says these things then get rid. But how do you know if he hides his phone?
Take care
xx
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Hi, can I ask how you know he tells his ex you're not together etc? If he has told you he says these things what are you still doing with him? He obviously has no respect for your relationship and that makes it immaterial whether he is still seeing his ex or not.
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reader, Nikita +, writes (16 January 2007):
 Hi Mandy, well, Yes I would be very suspicious if my partner was still texting his ex, expecially if he told her he still loved her and we werent together! In fact I would be asking him some very stern questions like why are you behaving like this when you're with me. You have to do the same. Its not reasoanble for him to expect you to put up with this to be honest. Would he like it if you were doing the same? He's either finished with her or he's not and him hiding his mobile and keeping it on silent does sound as if he's hiding texts from you. Im not saying that he's cheating but it could be that his ex wants him back and he's fending her off with these comments that you're not together and he still loves her or maybe he's playing both of you. you have to talk to him and tell him to stop texting his ex and telling her these things or the relationship is over. if this doesnt work then I would suggest you end it. Im sorry but you're worth more than what he's giving you at the moment. Good luck.x
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