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writes:My parents are very traditional and believe rather have imposed this one me that I should get married to the man of their choice! I have spoken to them about it and they give a deaf ear!I am here to ask you I'm currently single but if I'm in love with someone and I know for sure I want to marry this guy should I go against my family and marry him?because I know they will never ever let me marry someone of my choice,irrespective of how good the man is!do you think my parents are being reasonable? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 February 2013):
 I am not totally against arranged marriage but to this day and where you live, it is not so practical. You either make up your mind that you will follow your culture, or you go against it from day one. You don't fall in love then have this internal struggle, break up with the one you love. That's unreasonable to yourself.
This is a culture I will never understand. You are either a follower or a rebel. When you are stuck in the middle to choose, you are the most miserable.
That is not to say that if you choose tradition from day one, all will be peaceful. There is a chance that your arranged husband will seek out real love affairs, believing that he can't love you, because you are not his choice.
I will say, go marry your man and be Australian.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (17 February 2013):
 Hi
Is it because of religeous reasons ? Need some more information really.
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