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writes: Hi, I was going out with my boyfriend for three years last june. We fought quite often but he split up with me on the phone three days before my birthday. I was devastated as he was an amazing boyfriend. He said he couldnt picture us living together again as we fought too much first time. I recently moved back home. for three months I ignored his txts. Caved in met him for lunch in October we ended up together talked stuff over. He wanted to get back i said slowly so I only told my closest friends as I was burned my parents still dont know. My parents would kill me. I told him not do christmas presents but I bought him somthing small got me nothing but a rushed bracelet that I made him return... He lives three hours away I love him but last night my best friend fought with me over him saying I could do better so confused. I know he didnt treat me the best but cant help way I feel. I dont know whats happening I want it go slow for me but my friend says I'm lying to everyone its just I dont want to go through this again and my parents disapproval if not what I want. Am I just wasting my time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): I am in the same exact situation. I was wondering if you found the solution and maybe you could give me some advice
Thanks, Amanda
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reader, Erienne +, writes (3 January 2007):
hello you are in a very tuff situation..I totally understand,My bf all my friends hate and my family hate cause we fight all the time.My only advice is to sit and figure out the good and the bad is he worth it or not.It doesnt matter what everyone else says its what u want..The fighting in a realation ship is hard my bf and i do all the time but then there are good times..You guys need to make sure it is not jst going to go down the same road and if it does then end it but u need to find this out or u may regret it..atleast there was a break so things may get better i would try it again if that ws truly what i wanted..i hope i could help.
Erienne
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