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writes:I really like this guy but we don't go to the same school. We met at the mall a few months ago. I was sitting at a table and he came up and started to talk to me. I want to go out with him but he was telling me about how his past girlfriends always end up cheating on him. A couple weeks later, he emails me asking for my number. He called me that night and i really want to talk to him again. So, I emailed him but he didn't reply. Its been a week since I talked to him. I don't think hes into me. I'm not really sure of what to do. This is the first time that I felt this way about a guy. How can i show him that im different and that i wont cheat on him? Should I email him again? What can i say so that he'll call again?Thanks for taking the time to read and answer me. =] Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Don't bother with him. He's dating someone else. I know you think he is making you prove your worth, but I don't think that is what he is trying to do...
From experience I know that in "guy talk" that is just his way of saying, "I'm not looking for anything serious with you." And "I am an emotional wreck!" When you just meet a guy and he is wasting time talking about ex girlfriends who cheated on him, that's lame. It shows that he has got alot of emotional baggage (that he really should get over), and its his way of saying he's not ready for a relationship (cause he's either dating someone else or still dwelling on someone else).
Of course he wouldn't mind you chasing him. Everybody likes to be chased. But he is emotionally UNAVAILABLE. Leave it alone. This IS NOT the guy for you.
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reader, deadpromqueen  +, writes (8 July 2008):
well i may be younger then you but i've been throw this before..all you need to do is just email him telling him how you feel about him and try to explain how you're not like his ex girlfriends and that you care about him and wont cheat on him...just tell him the truth...:D i hope i help :D good luck hun
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