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writes: So my husband who lives in another country asked me to send him little bit of some money for internet so he can call me. I sent it him and he put the internet on his phone and then the next day asked me did I want him to call me later and so i said yes ok.So then he didn’t. Sometimes he does this kind of thing for my reaction and to the deliberate annoy me. So I’ve ignored him back because he likes to play games and get his own way and we had not long before been talking about me going back to his country and then he did that. I don’t think I’ve done anything wrong, everything was going ok and then he did that.I’ve not even bothered to call him as Ive helped him out and not the other way around. Do you agree I’ve done the right thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2023): How is this guy your husband? Did you meet up and marry? If so how comes you cannot be together now? Is he one of those guys who meets someone marries then and then only wants to talk to them when they want money? If so, you must be sure you are truly married in the first place. Not just assuming he is telling the truth about that. He might have six wives who believe he is their husband and not be married to any of them. Some guys do these things as their job/ scam.
You sound far too trusting and naive, much younger than your true age.
I've got money but I worked hard for it, no man gets a penny of it. That includes my true husband of many years. He has to earn his own, even though he is a proper husband and we live together and do a lot together. I did not work very hard and save to make his or anyone else's life easier. If they want money they can earn it for themselves. If needed they change their job or work longer hours or whatever it takes - like I did. I went without holidays for years to get somewhere in life.
If you are smart and you can advise people on relationships - wisely - come join us and earn good money at it at askagonyauntsadviceonline.com where you can hear a lot more from me for free, I am just visiting here now. My loyalty lies there. There is a great very busy forum as well as letters you can give advice to. More to do and earn good money too, cannot be bad.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (23 August 2023):
 Gotta second Kenny on this one - without more information, sounds like this guy is stringing you along and keeps you for the occasional bank boost.
Don't call him back. Boot him out. My guess - he's going to desperately try to keep you around, say whatever he needs to say, convince you he's going to change, but sis - he's not going to.
Ditch this guy! No more games.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (20 August 2023):
 You don't divulge much information about your situation here and how you are married to someone from another country who likes to ask you for money then mess you around in return.
None of this sounds right to me, and from the little information i have to go on the word scam screams out at me reading your post.
Yes your right not to call him, then i would suggest seeking some legal advice and obtain some information regarding getting a divorce, as i see this going nowhere.
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