A
female
 ,
anonymous
writes:Hiya,I've been with my boyfriend a few weeks now, and things are going great. He's perfect, he gets on well with my friends and can make me smile. Before Him, I never really had a boyfriend, but over MSN I used to frequently talk to this other boy, who I ended up falling in love with. This other boy, let's call him A, liked me for a short while but then quickly changed his affections to someone else. Recently I've been spending more and more time with A, as previously we were too shy and embarrassed to even look at each other, and I can feel some of my old feelings creeping back for him. What do I do? A would never go out with me, and when I used to love him I was constantly depressed, and felt I could never be good enough. However my boyfriend would do anything for me. Please help me!!!
View related questions:
depressed, msn, shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2006): I agree with Yos. I couldn't have said it better myself. Besides, you sound very young. You have your present guy who you say is so great. Well, your relationship is still new. Give this guy a chance, as good guys are hard to come by. I think guy A is trying to fill his ego because you have these feelings. Don't fall for it. What's serious to you is a game to him. Tell guy A have a nice life you are happy.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2006): I had a simlier expranice with a chat buddy my self so i know how you feel, But i found talking about it to a friend or some strange help me, i wudnt say jst cut A out of your life, but i wud say try talking to him and let him know where he stands, and try to deal with your feeling for him, either by talking to some one or however you see fit. But jst ask your self is A worth the trouble and is he worth giving up a great relastionship?
...............................
A
male
reader, Yos  +, writes (7 July 2006):
 Stay with your boyfriend. Stop seeing A.
Why is A seeing you more now? Is it because you have a boyfriend now? What does that mean? Once you have left your boyfriend because of A will A just turn around and do what he did before... not go out with you and make you feel depressed? Quite possibly!
A sounds like someone who doesn't have your best interests at heart. Your boyfriend sounds the opposite.
...............................
|
