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writes: Hi there. Is it possible for a married man ( no kids ) to fall out of love with his partner and feel for someone else genuinely? Someone is claiming that he still loves the gal he met some years ago, lived in a long distance relationship with her and still feel the same? Is it wrong to fall in love with a married guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2006): hi, its me again, the original writer of this question.thanks for al ur answeres...i really appreciate. i will the pic a bit clearer..him n his partner were marreid very young, cloer to 8-9 nine of marriage, n then i came in the pic, i was led to blive that they had problems, now wen n how we fell in luv, we dont know. they had to move overseas, she left early, n i actually stayed with him for some months before he went. we kept in touch constantly, i even went over to see him after 2 yrs, now going on the 6th.i came to a stage where i felt maybe my going away from him will solve his problems with his wife..n maybe they could start off fresh.i let go off him, and i told him to try to win his wife back, becos he still didnt come back to take me with him, as he promised. but claims that he still loves me...n he didnt feel for anyone like this before. what i dont understand is that how can a man love someone so much yet didnt keep that one promise that he made to loved one??? fine i understand that a married couple hve thier share of fights n problems, relationships take hard work, but surely i was the root of problems, i can imagine the pain she had to go thruough. but now im not thre, i moved away but he still comes back , saying he only loves me. im confused...not sure what to do here..yes i do love this guy n i wish i could hve been with him for always. but if he feels for her as well, n they still dont want to work on their marriage, i feel i should move away for good. no contact whatsoever. it was and will be very painful,l eaving someone u truly love, but someone gotta go.plse advise.
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reader, Lisho +, writes (7 July 2006):
 I think that he can.
Love is a mixture of lots of things and if a person changes or you change then that person is no longer as compatabile as they once were before.
I also think its possible for him to fall in love with an old flame, because we don't realise what we have got or want untill its gone. On the other hand it could just be lust.
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