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anonymous
writes: i just recently started talking to a guy that i knew from a few years back. we were hanging out in front of his house just talking when he kissed me. funny thing was that at that moment, the father of my son was passing by and he stopped, stared at us and left. the guy already knew i had a son, and was alright with it. but he asked me if i knew the guy that had just passed by and looked at him that way, and of course i said yea and explained to him that that was the father of my son but i wasnt talking to him no more and stuff. he told me that he didnt want drama and that sort of thing, that he was going to go upstairs and to text him when i arrived home so he could know i got there safe, but that he had never dealt with this type of drama and didnt want to start either. he was worried cause now my ex knew where he lived but i know for sure my ex is not going to look for him and is going to back off, so what should i do? should i try to talk to this guy or leave things at that?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (6 June 2010):
He sounds paranoid, but that might come from a bad experience with an ex bf in the past. Until he is ready to move on, just leave it at that. Just funny how he kissed you only to 5 min later say it's not for him... Red flag: instability and easily changes his mind + unwillingness to fight for the relationship.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (6 June 2010):
Ahh that's rough luck. This guy probably had a past relationship that was full of drama. Your ex just screwed things up for you by doing that.
I'd leave it at that and leave the new guy alone to think. It's very possible he'll not return, but you'll feel worse if you try to get him to change his mind, only to have him reject you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2010): He has said he doesn't the drama, I would leave it at that.
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