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*orgeousgirl
writes:well i go to a resturant, but lately my mother had told me that this teenager guy, the same age as me 17, has been staring at me, and getting all happy just to see me; since my mother told me that, I kinda started noticing, but he has never tried to talk to me, or tried to say hi, he just stares at me... Now that i see him often, I'm starting to like him, But I'm too shy to say hi or atleast try to talk to him. I dont know what do? Should I confront my fear, and try to talk to him, or just leave it (dont do anything)? I dont even know if he truly likes me or anything? What should I do?
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reader, gorgeousgirl +, writes (24 June 2007):
gorgeousgirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks for ur answer.. especially for the anonymous... thanks... he relates to me sooo much!
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (22 June 2007):
 I would swallow your fear and start talking to the guy. You may find that once you both get over the initial nerves you both have a nice chat. Also if you don't and this guy disappears would you look back and ask yourself what if?!
Your mum seems to like the idea of this lad liking you so he can't be all that scary :)
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): well i can say i am in the same situation as the guy. the place i go to has a gorgeous girl there and i want to speak to her but i am holding myself back, and she is shy. her mum said she likes me so i base that as the reason for myself to go for it. i think you can trust a mum too!! as for you. your mum seems up for the idea of you two getting together. and if you do like him, then go for it! you'll be better off becuase you will know if he does want you and if you want him through talking to him. and he will be better off becuase he gets what he wants and thats you! im sure of it, by the way you tell me. he probably thinks about you a lot. just talk to him, you dont have to ask him out straight away. just use friendly general conversation. and build from there, it may be hard but as soon as you break the ice you will find it a lot easier.
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