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*ombshelley
writes:heres an update on my problemthis guy iv known for two years, latly we have got really close, but then he told me he liked someone else, yet he's only know her for a week and thinks there going to become a couple! when were were close (about 2 weeks ago) everything was perfect and hes coming to spain with me, and my family in august, but right now things are so orquid between us, it makes me feel ill, at the fact or trying to start a conversation with him. i texted him but no reply, its like he's trying to ignor me, he said hes still up for comin to spain with me, but what if he has changed his mind.the ticket is non refunable, and my mum as well as being ill, is getting depressed at the fact he might not come, and her havin to pay for him! as money is extreamly tight for us i dont know what to do, and im worryed sick about this, i wish he could just still like me and for everything to be perfect again. advice please ?xxx
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reader, Bombshelley +, writes (18 May 2008):
Bombshelley is verified as being by the original poster of the question ahh fair point =/ im sure we will work it out...
ill move on, and we will proberly just end up being friends again :)
lets hope it ends up good anyway :)
cheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): Hi bombshelly,
What if he is with the girl when the trip comes up. What if he spends all his time missing her and calling her. What if being with you makes him miss her even more?
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reader, Bombshelley +, writes (18 May 2008):
Bombshelley is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes, he has messed up with my head, but if he isnt with this girl when the trip comes then the trip would be awesome, and maybe open his eyes to see i am a great person, the ticket has his name on it, so either way hes comin or paying me back, i dont agree with the fact you said, you hope he doesnt come ! because thats the problem, i hope he does come ! ill sort things out :)thanks anyway
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reader, lexilou +, writes (18 May 2008):
 If the ticket is non refundable then it doesnt really make a difference if he comes or not if your mum was going to pay. Or do you mean he was going to pay her back???? It doesnt sound to me like he should be allowed to come with you anyway but I think you should ask for the money if he was going to pay it, he is the one who has messed you all around. Is there a friend you could take instead if wont pay and maybe offer the ticket at half price so you at least get something back. You say you were close a few weeks ago and then he met someone else so I do think you might be better off without this guy - he is messing with your head. Talk to your mum and explain that it would be a terrible trip if he came with you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2008): I wish I could turn the clock back, I wish my ex would come back and be the sweet person he always was. I wish people didn't die, I wish it wouldn't rain. If wishes were diamonds we would all be kings. LIFE DOSEN'T WORK THAT WAY. Your not perfect, he's not perfect. He dosen't love you, so he's not the right person for you.
It's going to be impossible for you. I hope that he dosen't come, the best thing is if he decideds not to come and you give the ticket to someone else.
Tell your mum how your feeling. Tell your mum that you love him so much but he loves someone else. She's been hurt before, she's been in love. She will understand. Tell her how you feel, let her give you support in all of this. It will bring you closer together. Tell your mum and let take her advice, let her sort this all out for you, whilst you get on with the job of trying to heal yourself and deal with your pain. I'm sorry your going through all of this, it's not fair. Don't do it alone, ask your mum for help.
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