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writes:I am a 32 year old man recently i met a 21 year old lady on the net we been talking almost everyday on the internet she is in collage and is not that financially well off or as a prominant family as me but i love her to bits. We been taking things slow and just visited and meet her for the first time my mum tagged along as she was making quiet a bit of noise and sooner of later she will need to meet my girlfriend. Anyway it was a disaster as far as my mum is concerned she realy hates my gf and says i am spoiling my life etc. I on the other hand really like my girlfriend in person and she been trying so hard to be nice to my mum coming and spending time with us everyday. My mum is like going ballistic in fact she given me the silent treatment the explosive treatment the threats the speach of the end of my life etc.The important bit is me and my girlfrind want to go slow we not planning any thing at once we just want to be friends as we get along very well together. As regards marriage we discussed it but we have both decided that we should take things one step at a time and neither of us is in a hurry but we want to be together. But my mum hates her so was wondering how best to sort things out any advise would be helpful.
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reader, lionelhutz  +, writes (15 August 2010):
With all do respect, you are a grown man! If you are close to your mom, I can understand wanting or hoping she'll like your girlfriend. But ultimately this is your relationship, your life, your choice. And if your girlfriend makes you happy, nothing else should matter.
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