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writes: when i was 11 my mum died and i still relly miss her alot! i hav liked this lad called mark for a year and a half and i thought maybe he cud still like me be cos he used to so i decided to ask his friend if he liked me and he sed he didnt no but that mark had called me befor which sum1 has alredi told me but when i askd mark he sed he wud never call me but then marks mate sed he told sum1 that my mum was dead which i dont mind bcos they askd wer she was but what upset me was he used the word dead! which isnt very nice and that he sed i cry about it all the time and try and get attention with it n i am a moody bitch which reali upset me as i have only ever cried once about my mum and that was bcos i was thinkin about her alot but since then i have never cried about it it is just reli upsetting me bcos a reli reli reli lov this lad and i cant stand the fort of him saying that! i reli wont to say sumthing to him but i dont now wer to start n mayb if i say anyting to mark his mate who i am also gud mate with will fal out with me as he told me in secret but i reli need to talk to mark about it or else it will be eating me up inside! my friends dont seem to understand how much this is hurting me plz help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Toria +, writes (25 September 2006):
 Noone can truely understand how you are feeling if it's never happened to them and this is probably the case.
Your missing your mum and you have every right to, we never get over losing someone especially not when it is a very close family member we just learn to deal with it and manage without them around anymore.
All you can do is try and talk to him and explain what you are going through and how it affected you and how him being like this is getting to you, if he doesn't want to listen and understand then maybe try writing your feelings down that way you can really express yourself and he can read through it and take it in properly.
Good luck :o)
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