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writes: My mom wont let me go to a school dance this weekend because she found out i was grinding with my girlfriend at the last one. We are 15 and we have had sex so its not even that special, but she thinks its bad. My girlfriend still wants to go with her friends, but she is very attractive and highly sought after. I don't want another mans junk rubbing up against her. Its possible i could go over to my friends house and he could take me, but my parents would kill me if they found out. Advice please...? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Another_Kapiti +, writes (16 November 2009):
Just because you think your girlfriend is attractive is not reason to think that she'll cheat on you. How long have you been dating? I'm sorry not too sure what 'junk' is in this context! I'm taking grinding to mean just that and not anything different, you mean rubbing against other guys?!Why did your mum say you can't go? The dance is chaperoned isn't it? I'd say listen to your mother, she's saying no for a reason (not sure what the reason is) but just think, if you get caught by going from your friend's house, you'll be grounded and will be away from your girlfriend longer!Talk to your girlfriend about your feelings, am sure she'll appreciate you making the effort to communicate!
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