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writes: i split up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago n im finding it reali hard! i love him so0o0 much n really want him back. the problem is my so called m8 asked him out the day after we broke up n he sed yes! so now there going out but i really love him n really want him back. wat can i do??! plz help /3
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
dear reader i knwo you miss him and it hurts but think of the reasons why you split in the first please and could it work out not just on your part but his too as for you so called friend forget her thats not what friends do but on the other hand why has he gone with her that quick to me it sounds as though they are trying to make you jealous don't come down to their level you can do so much better if he was prepared to go off with your friend the day after you broke up then he must have liked her when you were together to be honest mate your better off without the both of them and my advice to you would be move on and find someone who is nice decent and not gonna run off with your mates at the first sign of trouble.
i hope you move on from this quickly and if you need anyhting else to talk about feel free to contact me direct
all the best sweetie xxx
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reader, lauxx +, writes (9 June 2006):
first of all hunni, she isn't a mate if she has done that!! i would totally block her out of your circle of friends cause friends dont do that to mates. But you carn't just have ago at your mate for this, your ex bf knew she was your mate and so therefore he shouldn't of said yes cause he had any feelings he would know how it would feel. i don't believe your ex is that nice if he could do that to you. if i was in your situation i would act as if you don't care and just have a laugh with the rest of your MATES!! if they see they are gettin to you they are goin to wind you up even more, soon enough your ex will realise what he is missing out on, when you come across as if your not bothered and your having fun!! he will be the one asking you back then the ball is in your court, and if that happens dont take him back straight away, give it a couple of days! then say what you feel is best. but for the mean time, do your hair and make up really nice, get ur best clothes on and prove to him what he is missin out on. and trust me him and her won't last long!! she is really sad!! good luck hunni, am here if you wanna chat!! xx
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