A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi there.I have been dating this man for the last four years, he is married though, but somehow we clicked and we have this thing going on. I have a lot of respect for his family and they always come first, though he gives me time too.Now recently, we started having issues i.e fights all the time, he talks to me rudely, doesnt answere my calls etc.It went on for sometime time till when i finaly realised he was dating another young gal! We had this huge fight and he promised it will never happen again and he ended that relationship( i have verified it did).Now six months later the same procedure has occured again, last night we met for a drink and the only thing we did was fight and fight... i dont like the way he says negative things about me, he is always putting me down and i think he doesnt respect me, and when i raise it, he says if i think he has too many faults then i should leave him alone and find another man. He says i have to learn how to see things he says positevly, whc to me its not practical. He has been a good guy for al this time but somehow i figure things have changed, he doesnt call me often, he doesnt buy me gifts, never helps me foot my bills etc. even during xmas he did not buy me no card!!I havent been perfect too either but i learn from my mistakes and i always be honest with him and apologise honestly whenever i hurt his feelings.I dont know wht to do, the things he says to me are hurting , am so emotionaly distablised right now, please advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): I dont see why you should be hurt that your married lover was cheating on you.. with someone else. He has been cheating on his wife with you! A leopard never changes his spots and this man will forever be a liar and a cheat. Never mind that he is putting both you and his wife at risk of HIV or STD's. Move on, this man will only cause you pain.Oh, and try and find an unmarried man to date!
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