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female
age
41-50,
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writes:Hi every body well I have a serouis problem if any one can give me some advice I will appresiat it.Well I was engage with this man for over 15years and have a son now 4years old I was married before and have 2 teenage girls with my 1st husband. Well I don't know where to start but here it goes.About 9 months ago me and my fiance got into a big argument he is a kind of man that drinks every weekend and it started when he verbely abuse me and the kids he would call us names that isnt right. Well I broke the engagement and moved out into a flat I am back with him but I didn't give the flat up becouse my one daugter told me she doesn't want to move back home. She is still very cross about the things he said to us. And I am not happy where I am know becouse my dougters are not living with me. And it feels not right becouse I thougt maybe things would change once I am back with him but I'am not happy.I want to be with my kids but he is presuring me by giving the flat up. How can I explain to him in a nice why how I am feeling I dont even want to have sex with him he gets very upset about this but I dont like 2 have sex with him any more. Please if any one of you can help me and give me advice. Thank you for helping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): Leave him! You deserve better than this. Your children are more important than any man and it is best to stick with them. End it with him and find a man who who treats you kindly and with respect.
Good Luck!
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