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My married friend called me gay and is really flirty with me

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Question - (24 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 July 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi im 24 yrs old and im definitely straight but.... it started that my other friend said to me on the txt ooo why dont u kiss her ( as a joke because i said i was out with her) and my mate saw the txt and said ok take a pic of us snogging!! i was in shock... anyway we did and she seems to like it it only a 5 sec kiss-...that was a yr ago and onward since then she always touchy and talks about sex and what way she do it she just soo open even we sit in the car for 3 hrs when i drop her off at home doesnt go in til 4 am in the morning... until last week we to a party she was touchy feeling and lookin at me longer ( i thought she drunk got to be) i took her home and she sat in the car for 3 hrs again and she was rubbing herself and makin sex noises etc....turns around and said ur gay..i was so shocked i replies back sayin i aint this went on for a while and i said i aint girl, she said u are because ur my bitch!! which im surprise!!! anyhow next morning she sed ooo was i bad .. i sed no just drunk .. she said im sorry for sayin that to u.. i said it ok just people tell the truth what they really think of ppl she said no dont worry .. i was talkin shit... Worse thing is she is married and yet she send these weird vibes to me.. i dont know if she want it or just the way she is... i never been with a girl im striaght so.. what does it mean ?? help please???

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A female reader, peachlacy United Kingdom +, writes (15 July 2007):

She's the one thats gay and coming on to you. The reason that she is saying your gay is because she is attracted to you and wants you to be gay with her. If anything don't sweat it when the right guy comes along you know it'll be right for you. In the meantime if you wanna explore then i'm pretty sure your friend is up for it. But you let her know that if she wants to talk to you about something you are there for her, if she's struggling with anything.

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A female reader, myp United States +, writes (24 June 2007):

myp agony aunti guess i could sum it up. =)

shes married, shes gay, and she wants you.

That gives you options, either you can explore your bi-curious side, or you can leave her alone. Just because shes attracted to you doesnt mean you have to reciprocate.

best of luck

message me if you want to talk =)

-Myesha

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