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writes: I am a married man of 10 years with two children. Six months ago a woman started working with me. She is also married, but with no children. We have fallen in love with each other and although we have not been "intimte" we have kissed many times. She thinks that there is too much at stake and we should end things, but still says she loves me and wants to be with me. I love her very much and wish to pursue things futher. Should I let it go? or should I pursue her, or perhaps let things be and see what happens?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2005): Brother...Don't risk it. At least think of your children. If your wife finds out you are taking a big risk. If this women is the one you want to be for the rest of your life, then it's not fair to your wife..do what you have to do.. Just remember the kids will suffer because of this. It's no longer an issue between you and your spouse but you childred too. devorces are bad no matter what and guess who is affected the most...Trust me not you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2005): Yes, I think you did the right thing by ending your affair with this woman. I have huge reservations about men or women who cheat on their spouses. It shows poor character, and a profound disrespect for the wife and family.
So drop the selfish ego massage, hun and you do definitely let this other woman go. This other woman or your wife, are not just "things' you use and discard. This is now a time, where you need to remember that commitment and character come into focus and become major player in the life of your marriage and family. I think it is time for you to grow up, and become a man of integrity and the committed husband/father, your wife and children need. Any thing less, is an immature, childish shirking your responsibilities, and morally reprehensible. If your marriage is in the trouble, seek some intensive marriage counselling with your wife and repair what got broken.
What you decide now, will affect your children for the rest of their lives.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (3 November 2005):
 Listen Buddy, you are married with two innocent children. You are a total jerk to be doing this to them. Start thinking with your brain and not your johnson! Until you are divorced and single you have no business messing around with other women. Creep.
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