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writes:my b/f and i have been together for 3 and half years, he started playing this pc game that never ends. and now our relationship is goin down because he so addicted to the computer. we always argue because he can't control himself,and he says he will control it,but im tired and i want to be love? my love is fading? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to thank everyone for the advice unfortunely he choose the pc game ... And the outcome is that I dont need a relationship with a man and his 2nd world game...mine is reality and im keeping it like that..We left each other and I feel happier..
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): WEll, some people do have addictions to different things and it could be hard to just stop! You might want to talk with him and maybe seek some help if that doesn't help. Maybe he's bored and there's nothing else to do than to go on the games. I myself enjoy playing with my husband when he plays video games and maybe you should just try it with him!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): This relationship has probably run it's course. Set the boyfriend, the PC with it's game outside on the doorstep and say, see ya on the internet and shut the door.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 Right now you start playing this pc game with him.
Otherwise you lose his attention and love will fade.
Now about "we always argue because he can't control himself".
Are you talking this about lack of his attention toward you or maybe there is something else here.
For ultimate result you will have to address his Addiction, but in time when you are ready.
P.S. What EXACTLY you mean by "he can't control himself"?
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reader, Royofthe Rovers  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 I can understand the addictiveness of computer games nowadays, especially the ones which you can immerse yurself in a different world. However, he cant seriously pick the computer game over you?
There should be a time and place for his game which does not interfere with your relationship the way it is.
Is it an online game? If so, think about disconnecting the cable so he cant play. He HAS to realise that you should be first in line before a silly computer game.
Or disconnect your internet for a month and tell him things you need more of his attention. You really need to tell him how you feel. It may sound silly getting jealous of a computer game but when someone is so immersed in these games an hour seems like 5 minutes!!
Tell him how you feel, truthfully and respectively, and then use the other tactics if he fails to react to your words.
If he is willing to end the relationship you have for a computer game, then his not the person you probably thought he was.
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