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writes: I just broke up from my relationship of 6yrs. it isnt easy for me i have put everything in this. Right now i can think of nothing expect revenge. He was my first love and he promised me marriage. He says i am a very good and genuine person but i am not the one for him. He said the girls he enjoys dating enjoy partying, drugs and dont care about tomorrow. That we are not compartible.why didnt he tell me this six years ago. I knew he wasnt a perfect guy and he changed alot because of me when we initially met but he has gone back to his old ways and now i suspect he is on drugs once more because he has become more violent and he hits me. I really dont know where to start from and the worst part of the whole thing is that he has told his family and our friends alot of lies to cover up his own neck and has threatened me that if i tell people what went on he would not only come after me but my entire family. Sometimes i ask myself if this was the man i fell in love with and i feel sad. I sometimes wonder everyday why cant i just sleep and not wake up. please help me.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (10 April 2006):
 darling this man does not deserve you, i know this advice i'm going to give you is going to be hard but i think its for the best, first off you need to just ignore and have nothing to do with this man his a horrible person, i know you love him but his changed.
do you really want to waste anymore of your time on a man who already amitted to you that its not going to work out?, if he wants a life of drugs and sex then let him do it, don't let him bring you down with him.
Secondly do you want to be with someone that beats you and threatens you? if this man was to love you he would not do these things to you.
he has a drug issue,he may have changed in the past but because your not the one anymore he has chosen to go back to that life, only he can make the change in his life, if he can't stop that life for himself and want to then its not going to last and its obvious that he enjoys that life, i think the only good thing he has done is that he has been truthful to you that he no longer has feelings for you and he is not seting you up to be cheated on or hurt even more, so i know getting over a break up is hard 6 years is a long time but people don't change and i think you need to be strong and accept its over and its for the best, good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2006): look just forget bout him.,.. i know its hard, but you have to know whats right ,,, and hey you said it urself you KNEW he wasnt the ONE... look you have to get over it adn go find someone who you know its right for you...if he said he doesnt care bout manana then hes screwed cuz wateva you do today there are consequencess 4 manana.. and if he likes party gurls and gurls that take drugs, then hes CRAZY BIG TIME... i mean really who would wanna go out with those kinda gurls..??!!! lolanyways you have to look on the bright side....look @ the positive things about you and know that you deserve someone sooooo much better than that.. hope this helps andthat evrything works out... who knows maybe mr. perfect is right under your nose...
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