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female
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30-35,
*eviravemuch
writes:I've been dating this girl miki, For about a year nowIt's a rather long distance relationship. I'm 16, and shes 22.We only sadly saw each other once a month maybe twice.We always kept in touch, On phone, Text, Msn or just email.We talked everynight,Just like if we were in person.for a few nights she didn't come online, I decieded to email her. No reply, Two months later she replys to that email. Saying oh i'm sorry i forgot about youI broke down. And didn't speak to her for about 3 weeks when she came online, I spoke to her like i was on thin ice. Intil i just said. I hate you!She came off busy and on to onlineWe had a long chat, And we talked for hours.I tried too finish it,But she wouldn't let me.We talked it out but i still want too. Theres also another thing.4 months ago, Prom night me my sister and her bestfriend miley all got kidnapped.I was nearly raped and left. My sister ran off, While miley was .. well you know the rest.I told her. Two days before i went up on the phone. And she told me she was busy. And called me back 2 days later.And told me i couldn't come up as she had family up.I know i'm only 16. But i know truely how i feel.I love this girl with all my heartBut i need to know if we need to finish each other, have a break. Or carry on, And try and work this out?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (6 August 2008):
 Sounds to me that miki isn't really that interested in you, even though she's keeping you dangling. I would definitely get on with my life if I were in your shoes and simply stop talking with her for a while. If you are keeping your life on hold for miki, you are wasting time, in my opinion.
You still have your whole future ahead of you, why spend so much time on a girl who is long-distance AND unavailable for you in times of crisis as well as going offline for 2 months. Doesn't sound like a nice person to me. You may have strong feelings for her, but you are throwing pearls before swine here, hon, sorry.
Good luck!
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reader, xLovex +, writes (5 August 2008):
I think you should draw a chart - Advantages and Disadvantages of your relationship. If there are more Disadvantages than advantages im afraid to say you should think about ending it. Also think about how supportive she is and how supportive you would want your girlfriend to be. Your 16 and shouldn't be weighed down with a long distance relationship at your age. But when it comes down to it, you breaking up with her is your choice and if she doesnt let you break up with her leave her a text/ email telling her - you are breaking up with her and it's up to her to accept it. Who says you can't be in love at 16 lool
Good Luck with what ever you choose to do xxx
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