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writes:Hi, There is this girl i met a few months ago which i really like. We are the same age. I havent seen her for like 4 Months and i am mad about her. She has been in a relationship since last week when her boyfriend split up with her. When she was with him she said that she really liked me. I have met her like 8 times. I was this close by asking her out and because i sent her an email through bebo saying how i fell about her, we also have a lot in common, Her Reply was "Rite i dunno how 2 tell u this but i dont like you the way u like mei only like you as a m8 oki thought id let you know like this okxx"On Her Bday, i went up 2 her house at like 1am to post a birthday card throught her letter boxHow can i get her to fall inlove with me? or make her like me? because she told me a few weeks ago that she really liked mePlease Help, i would appreciate if you could....Thanks Dan!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Dude this is sorta strange... ive been in the same situation as you, and also my name is Dan too! im only 16 so, like, what do i know about love and all that stuff, right? wrong. ive loved and lost and ya it sucks, but in your situation what i did was just accepted it and tried to move on. (yeah, its hard) it turned out that about a month later after i asked her out (obviously i got rejected) she started to hang out with me more often, i didnt even have to ask her out again cause after another week we started snogging for no reason while in a park. we're not exactly a couple, just, 'freinds with benifits' for lack of a better term (but not so much benifits, if you follow) but we're still pretty close and thats good enough for me right now.
good luck with your newly requitted love, man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Hey,
I'm only eighteen but i've been in a situation like this before. It's incredibly hard because for her to go out with you there has to be physical attraction...between you two. This doesn't have to mean she needs to find you physicaly attractive it just means that you need to spend a lot of time with her getting to know her properly and for her to want to take it further. You said shes just come out of a relationship and so she will need time to settle down
HOwever, the most important thing for you is that you don't push it to much, definitely play it cool, and it might help to start getting to know other girls (never focus on just one). This friendly approach is difficult as you will no doubt want to be with her yet you need to pretend that friendship is fine and act like it.
Hope that helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): Hi
There is a boy who likes me but I don't think I feel the same way about him. I wouldnt say I definetly don't like him it's just that I don't know enough about him or havent seen enough of his personality to say that i like him back. Maybe you should jus strenghten your friendship more before you try to develop your feelings further :D I am sure you can win her over by just seeing her more and just have a good time
This maynot be very helpful coming from a teen lool
Good luck xxx
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