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writes: himy long distance boyfriend is coming to visit me next week,it would be the 2th time we meet but i feel so nervous and i dont know what to do,where to go,what to say ...maybe because we didnt see eachother for 8 months.any advice?also,i want to give him a gift but i really dont know what to get him,help please..thanks
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Yes, do try to relax! It's normal to be somewhat nervous at this point.
As for activities, what sort of things do you both like to do? A jazz concert at a local park, perhaps? go bowling, possibly with one or two of your friends? Go to a concert; out to lunch/dinner? No doubt you'll both work something out.
As for a gift, don't get him something very expensive or elaborate. Maybe a paperback book by an author he likes, or a music CD by a group he enjoys.......how often have you talked in the eight months since you last met?
Anyway, enjoy!
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reader, Brooklyngirl +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Just be yourself! It's normal to be nervous. Once he arrives, your nerves will calm! Trust me! Been there!
As far as a gift, get something to go with his interests.
Good Luck and Have a Blast!
~BG~
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Hug, tell him how much youve mised him, Hungry? well lets go grab a bite to eat and catch up. Then when ur at a restaurant, tell him how youve been whats been going on with ur life and then his turn..I recommend a lot of hand holding, a lil kissy but too not PDA, smiling until ur face hurts. Then after that do u need help unpacking well lets go back to my house and watch a lil TV and snuggle on the couch.
As far as a gift goes, something small not too over the top, what does he like? Does he have an ipod for when he travels? I once made my LDR boyfriend who's now my husband :) a mixed CD of our fave songs..If u get him an ipod then u can put an I miss you playlist on there.
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