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writes:HiI need help!!!!!!I'm 23 married and have a 2 year old son but believe it or not I want to get away.From a young age there were three things I'd always said I'd never do/be1 live in a village2 play the little housewife3 have kidsbut guess what I am all of thoes things now and I hate it! I love my hubby and I love my son I just hate my life!I want to start a new life and do what I wanted to do before I had this.I've tried diving into the whole fulltime mum/housewife thing and ended up feeling down, I've looked for hobbies but can't do what i want because of where I live and not allowed to drive. I've tried spending more time with friends and talking to them but most of them can't be bothered with meWHAT CAN I DO?!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Flyguymyeye, thankyou!
Hi katyayni, thankyou.
In answer to your questions, Yes I have tried to find a job but I am limited to what I can do and the jobs I have applied for i've not got.
My husband does know exactly how I feel about living here. We moved into a nearby town for a year but had to move back due to finanical problems. I only managed to convince him to move out then because I ended up on anti-depressents as a result of living here.
I married him because I love him and at the time I didn't know how set on staying here he was. I also was not planning on having children so getting in and out of the village wasn't so much of a pain even though they are only every 2 hours.
I know that the 'wishlist' we make when we're are younger doesn't happen for most and I have left that behind. I was using them as an example and meant that this is now where I thought i'd be.
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reader, Flyguymyeye +, writes (9 February 2010):
Hmm, not sure I would take that advice fron Asian lady.
You're still young, however, it is never too late to pusue what you want.
List your aims and look at how you can achieve them. Lots of women in your situation gave gone on to fulfil their dreams, why should you be the exception.
It may not be easy, but what you want is well within the realm of possibility.
Rather than focus on what you wouldn't be, focus on what you want to be.
Good luck!!
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