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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:HelloI’m in a bad situation right now and I don’t have a clue what I should do. First off, I liked this guy for 7 months and I haven’t told him, basically I listened to this boy on advice because he did know the boy I like and I believed everything he said and I emailed the boy I like telling him but before going in the email I actually seen this guy at this convention in august that I went to for 2 days and basically when he saw me I was really ugly and didn’t do nothing to my hair etc.. and he kept staring at me so I was like ok I shrugged it off because I liked this other guy and then he kept watching me even more and his friends started to notice that he was more concentrated on me while talking to them and his body was facing me and I was so confused like what’s up and then I realise he likes me because I seen that he was paying a lot more attention to me then his mates.Well back to the email I emailed him in August saying stuff like why was he looking at me and not talking to me etc...And he emailed me saying I was imagining things the look was different and am immature. I thought to myself that is kind of out of order what he wrote but then again I shouldn’t listened to people now I learned my From my mistake not to trust any boy or girl. So then 6months later comes I see him last Saturday which I was shocked because he changed and I had a feeling he just broke up with a girl but this time I saw him staring at me and loads of people said I really looked nice and I noticed every time I would move to talk to a friend he would face his body towards where am standing and would talk to his friends but I realised he most of been watching me because how did he no I moved to another person to chat with, so then every time I would move around he would have the perfect view for me and I was confused was this because:1. He remembered me2. Or tried to see if I was the girl that emailed him3. I have changed a lot4. He fancied me again but this time still playing hard to get.Well to be honest in August when he saw me then and now I have changed my style looked much well and prettier so I had boys checking me out then.But what really annoys me is that he don’t know it weren’t my fault about the email someone else was telling me stupid things but because he doesn’t no that he thinks am still the same which I proved I changed and haven’t emailed him since that assembly which was Saturday. When the assembly finished we all evacuated and I saw him again and I was talking to another friend and I have noticed that when I was talking to my friend I looked at him and he was looking at me and then quickly faced his friend. So can this mean he still tried figuring out who I was or liked me?One more thing he remembers my mother so when I was standing next to my mum then I think he remembered me and when he looked at me this was the last time and this looked was really different like “ Woh” what happen look :S.Men and Women can you please help me in this situation because am really stuck and confused.Thank you
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (14 January 2010):
 Wow Lonnnnnnnnnnnggggg, lol ok. this iis really a problem for you has your young life turned all up side down. heres how to solve it, you wont like it but it will work.
Go find that boy and tell him what ever you need to tell him so you can get all this off your chest so you dont have grey hair before the prom, do you even have prom, in where ever you are, im rusty on flags.
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