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*upcake143
writes:I'm confused. He hasnt talked to me like almost for 2weeks.. I'm scared i might loose him. He's the one that always made me smile. He was the one that made my heart beat faster.. Now idk anymore... He's my long distance boyfriend and he hasn't talked to me. Day by day im loosing feelings for him. He told me this "Tbh if we ever broke up,which i don't plan to. It would take me years 2 get over you or i would probavly be dead." Now idk if he ment it. But ughhh im confused. So How can i find out the truth?
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reader, Cupcake143 +, writes (4 December 2012):
Cupcake143 is verified as being by the original poster of the question@CindyCares,He doesn't reply. Nd well i have a feeling that somthing bad happend. His parents dnt care bout him nd im afriad his dad beat him and killed him. He has a tough life. I care for him and i keep him from harming himself. But right now i'm
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (4 December 2012):
 Have you two ever met in "real life" off the computer - face to face? If not... My guess is that he lost interest in this "fantasy relationship" because he met a girl locally.
Do you not have his phone number?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (4 December 2012):
 the truth is at your age honey it's hard to say "it's over" without being mean. so many folks just walk away.
It's over.
you will heal and the pain will stop.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2012): He clearly didn't mean it. He doesn't have the guts to tell you he's not interested anymore.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 December 2012):
 No, of course he did not mean it. Actually, he probably DID mean it and believe it there and then , atm, but , if he is in your age range, do not take anything he said too literally, feelings and moods change sort of fast. 99,5 % of teens do NOT die for love ( thanks God ! ) and do not need years to get over someone.
Now, re. finding out what is going on, ..well, did you ask him ? I mean, two weeks he does not talk to you,.. and you do not pick up the phone, or shoot an e-mail, to say, " hey what's up ? Is everything OK with you ? " ..Do you have to wait for him to contact you ?- how come ?
Or, do you mean that you have tried contacting him and he does not answer ?
It would be two different things, in the first case, it's not nice of him to keep you hanging like this, but he could be busy or dealing with some problem at home or depressed etc. If he is actively avoiding you,... then you understand that this is not a good sign .
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