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writes: I think I have a knicker fetish problem.When I am at my girlfriend's house alone I keep sneaking into her mum's room and going through her panty drawer. I get off on the sexy feel and smell of her knickers. I like to put her silky ones on and stroll about freely. On several occasions I have wanked inside them and had to be careful with the cum spillages. I'm also searching her room high and low for a vibrator. She don't have a fella at the moment and in my head I get sexual thoughts about her pleasuring herself. I don't even know what I'd do with it if I found it, but the thought of her putting something inside gives me a stonker!!I don't know if this problem relates to when I was a teenager when I used to put on my own mum's knickers and short skirts. I loved the feel on my penis and arse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2010): How can there possibly be anything wrong with sniffing dirty knickers if you like the smell?
We fuss far too much about knicker sniffing. Some men like the smell, some men like the feel and some men like to wear them. It really does not matter. It should not matter to women either. If a man fancies the smell of her dirty knickers, great! She should really feel flattered. There is nothing embarrassing about this either for the man or the woman. Admittedly, there is a rather personal element in this but then there are lots of personal elements in life especially regarding health and behaviour so what's the problem?
We are supposed to be living in an enlightened time where sex and pornography are part of life so the idea that men may like the smell of dirty knickers should pass on the nod.
Certainly it is nice to talk about the subject and to swap experiences through the internet but for goodness' sake, let's not talk about this subject as being disgusting or perverted. Maybe if a bloke pushed his head up his girlfriend's dress in front of others in order to sniff her knicker crotch, it would be unbecoming conduct but that is not the point. We should all behave with a certain amount of decorum and respect for other peoples' feelings but simply liking the smell of dirty knickers and looking to sniff any that are available and doing this without others knowing about it cannot be criticized.
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reader, sietnap  +, writes (2 July 2009):
There is no real problem in wearing or wanking off in knickers. The issue is whose you use. Far better to use your gfs rather than those of a family member. If you are found out it could be hurtful to others.
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reader, intimatearomas +, writes (22 January 2009):
Please look at our website :
www.intimatearomas.co.uk
so you won't have to sneak into your mother in laws drawers.. we hope to please you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): i am a 33 yr old man and enjoy wearing knickers , thongs especially they make me feel sexy , naughty and aroused, i see nothing wrong with this , i buy my own ,and enjoy the feeling it gives me , i have been caught by women who have seen my knickers but this only arouses me more , i dont see any harm in it
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): i think it's quite common for men to 'borow' ladies undies and get a turn on from it. doesn't mean it's right though. i used to borrow the MIL's panties...and the threat of getting caught was a big part of the excitement. my wife caught eventually caught me...and believe me it was not at all pleasant! so just don't kid yourself about the consequences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): It is a perfectly normal act to enjoy womens knickers and if your straight enjoy womens knickers that have been worn by an attrative lady. I own my own sex chatline and often get men into underwear, I also sell it to some clients my worn knickers. I think they yes you like womens underwear, but you may also be into her mum too by the sounds of things, not really fair on the g/f you should think about how they would react if you were caught out and be careful in furture to not get carried away.
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reader, loo-loo +, writes (8 January 2008):
Right.
The internet is stuffed full of people calling others perverts and greedy companies making money out of porn.
So, let's have a breath of fresh air and be completely honest for once. Maybe women dont understand the attraction of their underwear to men, but a lot of men probably dont understand it either.
But, that doesn't make it go away.
The beginnings can often be way back in childhood, and maybe forgotten - or repressed due to embarrassment at being considered abnormal.
Let me tell you my story (and folk who are expecting porn can stop now; there isn't any).
One day in the late 60's I was cycling home for lunch from a mate's house. I considered myself a normal teenager, although I had no idea what this "masturbate" was that boys in school asked me if I had done yet. I had tried but just couldn't keep an erection going for more than a few minutes. Not surprising really, considering all I had to look at on my bedroom wall were posters of Hendrix and Pink Floyd.
Anyway, on the corner of my street was a house where a very pretty girl lived. She was a couple of years younger than me which made even acknowledging she existed a complete no-no to boys of my age, or I would be deafened by shouts of cradle-snatcher. She had younger sisters and they often played in the garden. Because their house was on the corner facing onto the main road, their garden ran back parallel to my street, and because they had no hedge, just an old chain fence, the entire garden was visible from the road.
They had a large slide at the back of the garden, which was the envy of half the village. I think the only other slide was in the park near the school, but that was populated by the local bullies, so I stayed away.
As I cycled by, the older sister (I shall call her Wendy Smith although that is not quite her real name), was playing on the slide. Very short skirts/dresses were the fashion at that time, and being summer she was wearing just a sundress.
She was trying to climb up the slide bit, but with not a lot of success. However, with her hands on the bars at the top of the slide and her legs trying to walk up the slippery bit, she was showing virtually as much of her arse as it was possible to show.
I only saw this vision for a couple of seconds, and she was wearing white knickers, but I could not see that much of her knickers as she had the most extreme wedgie I had ever seen.
Most of her underwear had vanished between the cheeks of her bum.
This only really registered as a passing image, and I carried on home for my lunch. However, I could not get that vision out of my head and began to wonder how anyone could function with their knickers jammed into their arse that much.
When I had finished my meal and my Mum was washing up, my Dad was mowing our lawn and my brothers had gone back outside, I could stand it no more. I could think of nothing else but Wendy's bum.
I crept up to my bedroom, shut the door, stood in front of my mirror and tried to re-arrange my own underwear in that fashion. Of course, mens pants are rather more substantial than womens' and I found it virtually impossible. What I did find was that my dick had grown to previously unknown proportions and the tighter I pulled my pants into my own arse and thought about Wendy, the more vertical it went.
I thought about the movements the boys at school were talking about and tried them for myself. I didn't have to wait long and ejaculated all down my bedroom wall. I had never expected anything quite like that, and didn't really know what to do.
However, I recovered and re-adjusted my clothing, cleaned the wall as best as possible with an odd sock, then went outside to continue the day, wondering if I looked any different - because I felt different.
With raging hormones, I could now wank myself silly just by thinking of Wendy. But, something was missing. That something was provided when my Dad went around in his car collecting old clothes for a Jumble Sale. I accompanied him, and people gave us lots of coats and jumpers. We took it all home and my mother had a cursory glance (just in case there was anything decent - you understand) before throwing it all into cardboard boxes which were put up in the loft until the weekend.
As she rummaged through a pile of boring women's stuff, a brief glimpse of pink caught my eye. I was sure it was a pair of women's underwear. Normally this kind of thing was never given away in this manner, they were far too private. Anyway it had been covered up by a coat and was in the box, and very soon in the loft.
I said nothing, and I was convinced my mother had not seen them from where she was standing because she would have made a disparaging comment about the 'type of person who gives her smalls to charity'. My heart had started to race, though and I wasn't sure why. I expected it was just a short pink petticoat, or something similar.
I had to know, though. My mind just wouldn't rest. If it was a pair of knickers, they may not be white but they were as close as I was going get to Wendy's. I had tried my mother's drawer but she wore great big things with legs on them. Hers were worse than mine - poor woman.
I had to engineer a time on my own long enough to get into the loft and investigate the boxes. In the end I caused a family row by refusing to go and see an elderly aunt. I tried to make up the best excuse I could think of, but time was running out and I couldn't let Friday evening arrive, as that would be when the clothes had a proper sort.
To cut a long story short, the family eventually left me behind - in disgrace, but as soon as they were out of the drive I was up the step ladder and into the roof space. I had made a mental note of the box and with my pulse starting to race I looked between the coats. My heart stopped as the pink material appeared. My instinct had been right all along.
There they were, a pair of pink ladies knickers and a relatively young lady judging by the the design. At first I dare not touch them, but when I did I felt myself starting to shake. I was not really sure what was happening, but was in a state of total excitement. I grabbed them, put them in my pocket, pushed the coats back into the box and hurried back down the step ladder. I shut the loft trap door and put the step ladder back in the garage.
I rushed up to my room and could hardly concentrate enough to get my jeans and pants off. I pulled the pink knickers from my pocket and stepped into them. As I did so, my whole world seemed to turn upside-down. I was not prepared for their softness compared to the men's version and as I pulled them further up it was if my legs were experiencing a million tiny electric shocks.
How the hell were women of my age managing to cope wearing these wonderfully light and soft creations every day?
I cant tell you how quickly I orgasmed, because I cant remember, but I do know that I kept those knickers for many years hidden in my bottom drawer in a box full of postcards. Eventually, they fell apart and had yo be disposed off.
Maybe had I stayed in my home village, I would have made an effort to become friends with Wendy, but I left home two years later and have not seen her for nearly 40 years.
She was totally unaware of me cycling by that day, and cannot even begin to understand the effect that her innocent playing had on my life.
Wherever you might be, Wendy, thankyou.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): I think you should be careful about your exploration into womens underwear and items! Maybe your girlfriends mother is not the best person to be fantasising about - the hurt it would cause if discovered is really not worth it.
Why not try looking online. Maybe some flirting with an older woman - if thats your thing? I know a place where you can flirt and talk with women who will send you their underwear and items. www.ebare.co.uk. Go and check it out.
Theres nothing wrong with exploration - but preventing the possibility of really hurting someone should be avoided x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): Where do you live? I've been missing several of my knickers inculding my 'lucky' ones and I want them back.
I'll bet it's you who's nicked my knickers.Buy you own. I had a hot date on Wednesday and I did'nt have any clean undies to put on! It was a disaster, he was a cute guy but I think that he thought that I was a slut.You pervert, if I get hold of you I'll yank your balls off, then you won't have an excuse for wearing knickers!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): I too love to sniff my woman's knickers to me it's one the best things so no there is nothing wrong in doing this it' FAB
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): It seems sick to me...perhaps becuase I suspect a 'friend' of mine from cuming on my bathroom towel while doing this...I discovered a cum stain on the towel the days after he'd been round for the evening! We're mates that's it, and I actually thought he might be gay! He was in the bathroom about 5 minutes and I remember thinking that really odd...now I know why! I now think this guy is a TOTAL PERV...Any similar awful experiences, anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): You really shouldn't beat yourself up about this. The truth is that for most heterosexual men, a woman's vagina is the most beautiful, wonderful and fascinating piece of creation they will ever encounter in their lives. And whilst most of us have heard the phrase "penis envy", I suspect that I'm not alone in regularly feeling "vagina envy". And knickers are in effect the gift-wrap for the best present most men ever want. They decorate, they enhance, they teasingly hide this most beguiling part of a woman in exquisite materials - often showing tantalising hints of what they contain.
It's hardly surprising that knickers acquire a compelling magic of their own for many of us.
Enjoy them while you can!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006): No.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2006): This is totally OK in my view. I too love the smell and feel of knickers and have gone down washing baskets many a time.Once when a girlfriend took off her knickers and put them over my head to smell whilst we slept with each other in the car I thought five Xmases had come all at once!I also got her to wear her sister kniockers whilst I fucked her and boy did I cum quick. Later on I slept with her sister to square things up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2006): i enjoy wearing old fashioned white cotton knickers.there is nothing wrong with wearing knickers but you are bieing very disrespectfull sneaking about in your girlfrinds mothers home.DONT DO THAT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2006): i do exactly the same but i have found a vibrator, it wa the most exciting yet confusing experience when i found it. i ended up putting on a pair of lacy silk knickers and inserted the dildo into my anus. i then wanked off with another pair of knickers around my penis, it was great!
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reader, sigga dögg +, writes (27 October 2005):
Why would your knicker fetish be a problem?
It is actually a rather common soft fetish and I cannto see how any hurt can come from it, well wearing your mother-in-laws knickers might not be the best idea, what is wrong with your girlfriends? Or even better, buy the ones you really like and give them as apresent to your girlfriend!
A lot of men have this fethis, dont sweat it.
The fantasy about vibrators sounds to me like you just want to experience more in your own sexual life.
Fantasies like yours are not unhealthy nor are you a freak.
Just keep them to yourself and wank off!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 October 2005):
 You THINK you have knicker fetish problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2005): Its nothing to be ashamed of if this is what you like.....BUT it is wrong and totally out of order to be snooping through your girl friends mothers personal things! If you like the fetish then enjoy yourself and try out new things but maybe you should buy your own?!
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reader, gillybean2k5 +, writes (25 October 2005):
 ok..close the drawer and back slowly away...
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