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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i have a girl,whom i use to like her so much. used to talk everyday n hang out weekends together like friends. some how i started feelings for her n felt jealous about her friends. i totally went possessive. i told her that i had feelings for her but she said "i don't have any feelings for u". we ended our relation n we r not even friends now. did i do any mistake? i guess so.she is mad at me n not even talking to me. she moved on, got new friends, almost forgot me. i really really love her a lot. i don't wanna miss her.i can't move on:(
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 I know that rejection is hard to bear, we've all experienced rejection in some form or another, so you aren't alone. I am a little worried though that if you don't sort out your feelings of jealousy, it's going to come back and haunt you in any future relationships. It's scary for a girl when around possessive men, we don't know how they'll react to anything, turn to violence etc. Obviously you've scared your friend off, and wouldn't contact her again, unless SHE initiates contact with you. You're young, you'll meet someone who will love you as much as you her, but you have to give her her space, even if you get jealous feelings, rein them in! DO NOT show possessiveness to girls, or they'll run a mile. Good luck in the future.
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