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writes: I really fancy my ICT teacher; he is the sexiest loveliest man I have ever met and I want to be with him. But he confuses me. You see one minute he's tender and warm and he gets very close to me and touches me hesitantly and shyly and then another he is cold and tells me off as though I am just another student. I can't tell how he feels. Help Me! Does he fancy me or doesn't he?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): he probally likes u but doesnt want other kids to notice.... so u know what i mean .... beasue if they do ..... u both will be in trouble
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know he may get in trouble for having a relationship with me. I have fancied him for 2 years now so I have had plenty of time to consider the consequences of my actions. I know that I should get over this but I can't since I wrote this reply he has been closer to me than ever, he treats me like any old student in class but when we are alone together he is so different. He has started touching me more, (accidentally on purpose) and he always sits with his legs really far apart, he'll stare at my boobs alot, he flirts constantly, he keeps adjusting his collar awkwardly every few minutes and he sees me as some kind of romanticised item. He is similarly strange with other girls but he is especially nice to me. Everyone (and I mean everyone) says he is a sick pervert because I guess in a way he is. He tucks in shirts and things but he is a lovely man really In know he is. Thing is he is not just a crush I fear that I have fallen in love with him and there is no way I will get over it any time soon. Should I tell him how I feel and I so then how without looking like some sad deluded teenager. I am not like that I have always been mature for my age and just lately I have felt this real strong urge to grab the bulge in his trousers.What on the face of the earth should I do?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 I don't really know whether he fancies you but you're behaviour towards him maybe making him feel uncomfortable and edgy, as you obviously get seriously punished for getting too close to a student. We often mistake simple kindness as more than it is intended to be and this maybe what is going on here. You obviously like him but this is risky business, especially for him. If he got with you, he would never be able to work with children again!
I suggest you relax and act normal around this man and see what happens. Even if you like him, if he does get onto you or flirt in any way, you must report him.
I don't know what's going on unless I see you in the classroom with him but I think he has probably noticed you have a 'thing' for him. If he doesn't want to get involved, this will explain his strange and ever-changing behaviour. Back off and no one will get hurt or in trouble. Good luck
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 He doesn't. Now start enjoying yourself with the other kids.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2006): U may fancy him but its not right...teachers arent aloud to have realtionships with students. So please get this fantacy out of ur head b4 it turns dangerous.
He could lose his job & never be aloud to teach again if U make a move on him.
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