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writes: Hello! A long story short;My husbands ex wife has done everything she can to keep him away from his only daughter who is 5 years old now. Through legal help we are finally establishing regular visitation and by being in the same state now. His ex wife is telling lies and even managed to have my husband's side of the family totally swaed over to her beliefs and lies. We feel that she is also abusive to my husband's daughter by telling her that her daddy is being mean to her mommy on the phone when this is not true.She is making serious accusation that are absolutely not true. How can we protect ourselves from her and her lies? Most of all, how can we mace sure that his little girl is not in the middle of her mother's rage?I am to the point where I feel afraid to have this little girl visit us on visitation for the thought of what her mom will come up with next.We tried to reason with his ex wife and nothing. My husband is a wonderful man and a wonderful father. He is a very loving and dedicated husband to me. I know his ex wife wants to get my husband back. I feel this is her motivation for all of this horrible drama.My husband told her to move on that he is very happy in his life.What can I do from my side here? I feel that I just want to not be involved with this woman as I have done in the past. I saw her twice. I was nice and respectful .Now she is attacking me not in a very open way however, I heard her call me a bitch in spanish over the phone. . What do I do?I like ot mention that his ex wife was physicially and verbablly abusive to my husband. One of the reasons he divorced her.SincerelyWorried and Confused to how to handle all of this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): how do you know for sure that everything in THEIR marriage was her fault? How silly to believe that he was perfect and she was just some evil wife. People lie. You may not know REALLY what this woman has gone through because of HIM. It's sad how women turn on each other for some man without checking the facts out. Men seem to stand by each other. All you know is what He has told you about her. She might have called you a bitch because of something he told her about you. You never know. Some men can be very manipulative.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): your husband could try to get custody. try visiting the local police station about it, talking to lawyers, and talking to social services. if she's abusive, she should not be anywhere near a young child.
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