My husband's best friend who is also married wants to have sex with me, I refused yet he does not listen to me, what to do?

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Question - (18 October 2008)

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A female age 41-50, *appymoon writes:

my husbands best friend wants to have sex with me.he is also happly married. his wife is my friend.i have already told him to control his emotions cause it will ruin our marrieges.but he is not ready to listen to me.what should i do?i dont want to hurt my husband cause i love him a lot.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008):

Don't!!! It would ruin your relationship with him,his wife,and your husband.But you should tell him that eathier he backs off or you will tell your husband.And if they doesn't work...Just....Well....Tell his wife..Let her deal with him.

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A female reader, happymoon +, writes (19 October 2008):

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thank you all....i think i should tell him not to come to my place...because he used to come to my place when i am alone....i know him for the last 5-6 years....but for the last few weeks his attitude towards me has changed....if he not listen to me this time i will surely tell the matter to my husband.....

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

u must tell ur husband about this...

don't be get weak in the front of ur hubby friend and slapp him if they will telling this shit again...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

If I understand this post right things have progressed to the stage where you guys have started talking about sex.Can I assume you are the innocent party here or are you attracted to this jackass as well?.This line "i dont want to hurt my husband cause i love him a lot." means only one thing that you are not willing to have a physical relationship with the jackass or don't you want to hurt your husband by telling that his best friend is a sleazebag??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

If your husband has a false friend, he needs to know. Don't hide this from him, because if he finds out he will feel like a fool.

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A male reader, anthonynj +, writes (18 October 2008):

Yup, tell your husband about this!

And how is this gonna hurt ouur husband? Are you crazy?

For you it's your husband not his friend who's important (or is it?)!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

You haven't done anything wrong dear, just tell your husband. Get it out in the open before his friend starts something worse.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008):

Tell your husband, he will take care of everything..

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