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*ivaRandal
writes:he is a theater actor and was interviewed at a talk show. i noticed that he was frequently looking the direction where many girls were sitting there were men too but the staring became too noticeable. i saw that he kept looking in the other direction even while answering.he didn't even look at the other side where other people were sitting. the host didn't even glance there once where my bf was looking. even in the photos it became obvious that he was frequently looking in that direction. lastly he blew a kiss in that direction too and was once again smiling and looking there.whats up??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2011): He was probably appealing to his fans. Do you have any reason not to trust your boyfriend? Seems to be a losing battle if you are this jealous and paranoid already. What are you going to do when he has romantic scenes?
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reader, DivaRandal +, writes (2 October 2011):
DivaRandal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe wasn't interacting with the camera or audience for sure.
i am sure people interact with everyone not just one group or person.
whenever the host would ask him questions he would turn to look in one way or the other in that particular direction.
t became very evident in the photos as well.
when he blew that flying kiss it wasn't directly at the audience.it was at that particular direction.and he gave a big smile in that direction too.even the host noticed it and started smiling too.
When the host would talk to the audience his eyes would be fixed in that particular direction.
that's why it bogged me.
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (1 October 2011):
 I would caution you to learn to compartmentalize your husbands public persona and his private one. He was acting this way in public, nothing was sneaky or improper about it.
Men look at pretty women. That is simple truth. It does not mean anything more than that.
Put on thicker skin and let it drop. Your husband may do lots of things with other women that are part of his job, and you will need to mentally and emotionally seperate acting from reality.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 October 2011):
If he's a theatre actor and he was being interviewed, chances are he was playing to the audience. I think you might be making something very big out of nothing here. I would drop it now, or this husband of yours might start to worry you're not up to being his wife with a career like his.
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reader, wiseoldman +, writes (1 October 2011):
How do you know he wasn't simply interacting with the camera lens? As an audience member and presumably not in show business, you mightn't be aware that in a multicamera shoot he was aware (because of being told by the production team beforehand) of which camera was trained on him and was paying attention to that. Secondly, seating's very carefully choreographed for the audience of TV shoots so the girls were placed there for a reason. Note that programs like America's (or Britain's) Got Talent or X-Factor always has pretty girls who just 'happen' to be sitting in the front row so they can be seen in shot when the camera's on the judges. Watch the show and see for yourself. Also, an actor's public persona is necessarily different from his private one. If he's the leading man/matinee idol type he was simply and sensibly acknowledging his fan base by interacting with the girls. The more fanmail the public sends, the more chance he has of being hired for future jobs.I understand that you are upset because your boyfriend's in a position which constantly draws him to the attention of other women, but this is a byproduct of the business he's in. As a bonus for you, he's also aware of what all those 'beautiful' actresses look like without their makeup, and I assure you it's not always a pretty sight. Relax and let him try to earn his living. It's a viciously difficult profession.
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