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*unnie poo
writes:Hi everyone I am a 22yrs married woman and also have a 5yr old son!!!!my problem is my hussy is muslim and i started liking the islam way.... than after sometime i wanna to become muslim, but then I changed my mind! but my hussy said he will end the marriage becoz I don't want to become muslim again that i saw true and I am walking away form it!!! so I said ok i will do it...yesterday we were read up on the book and the book said that the we woman can't wear to fit colths!!!!!!!!!! so my hussy told me that I have to wear big pants ... and I told him that I am not going to do that becoz I love the way I wear my pants I also told him that I will wear bigger top but that;s not good for him.....so the thing is my hussy thinks that I am not good to be around my son and him and will end the married do u think that's RIGHT!! do u think he really loves me?????????????????? plz i really need some answer thank you .......
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): Islam is in mercy and love If your neighbors happen to be non-Muslim you must not forget Islamic manners in dealing with neighbors. The recommendation of Islam for good relationship with neighbors is for Muslims and non-Muslims alike. so what we going to say about the wife the heart of husband dont be mad or upset be smart all u need to do u remind him how
the Prophet (SAWS) was and everything can be fixed with time u just be good wife and good mam
wish for u all the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2010): Anyone who chooses religion before love should be divorced. Find someone who will put you first, above EVERYTHING, including their religion. If he wants to end it, tell him you want out, as well, as he's taking his religion too far when he sacrifices his duties as a loving husband. That's very shallow on his part. He chose his path, let him take it, and be glad you're not part of his fanaticizism. Religious beliefs are meant to teach love, not distort it, but unfortunately this guy's one of millions that are using it to massage their egos, twisting principles and doctrines in the process. This is why translations are sadly being changed year after year, in every belief. One person decides it should change, and others follow suit without caring about the consequences.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Well I am not a muslim and my husband is. we also have a 5 year old whom we raise as muslim (as in no pork for her,islamic name) anyway i have never been under any pressure to convert.you should remind him that a muslim man can marry anyone from a semitic religion (jewish or christian) so what is his problem? he shouldnt have married you in the first place if he cannot handle it. sometimes it is not an issue of religion, it is more like an issue of a controlling man.
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 Obviously he's fallen out of love with you and in love with Islam. Just get a divorce and find someone else who is not so brainwashed as to believe that YOU must believe in whatever he's just adopted as his new faith.
I've seen this happen with Catholics and Southern Fried Baptists. One goes totally religious nuts-o and insists that the other convert or else.
Brainwashing. Total mind control.
Get out now before he does something violent or crazy or both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Leave him. He sounds like an arse...
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 July 2010):
 Usually I believe in freedom of religion. Your husband does seem like a "it's my way of the highway" kind of guy. If he is a good man, a good provider, I would just suck it up. I could forgo pork and short sleeves for the man and children I love. I kind of like the idea of protecting my skin under that scorging sun. It keeps the wrinkles and freckles away. Remember, devotion frees. You only get one life to experience this or that culture.
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